Today, millions of mothers face what some experts call the “Modern Motherhood Paradox.” Studies show that over 70% of working mothers feel unfulfilled in their careers or personal lives, struggling to balance professional ambitions with the needs of their families. As many mothers pour their energy into others, they often sacrifice their own dreams and identities along the way. A recent survey revealed that 60% of mothers feel they’ve lost touch with their personal goals, yet continue to push their needs aside, fearing it’s “too late” to reclaim a fulfilling, purpose-driven life.
The bigger question becomes: Can we continue sacrificing our own potential for others without reaching a breaking point? For those feeling the weight of this paradox, the answer isn’t about choosing between motherhood and ambition—it’s about creating a life that fulfils both.
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From Feeling Lost to Reclaiming My Fire
I know what it’s like to face this inner conflict. I found myself asking, “Is this all there is for me?” when I was 36, married for 10 years, and raising two kids. Originally from Kenya, I moved to Austria at 27, navigating a new culture, language, and role in life. These adjustments took all of my energy, and I poured myself into making sure my children and husband were well-cared-for, putting my dreams on the back burner. At the same time I am a seasoned expert with more than 20 years experience in the Human Resources industry and worked as a HR Manager. When I arrived in Austria I started working at an Embassy for years and I had to juggle being a mum, wife and colleague. But, I didn’t mind. I believed I was fulfilling my purpose of building a happy home. But over time, I realised that I was constantly filling everyone else’s cup while ignoring my own left me depleted.
When my children grew more independent, I finally took a step back and asked myself: Who am I outside of these roles? That one question sparked a journey that led me to unearth dreams I had buried. I recognised the only way to reach those dreams was to reconnect with my core ambitions and define who I truly wanted to be. So, I made a commitment to myself to study everything I could on self awareness in the hope of understanding more of who I was and what I want to do and be in the next chapter of my life. That journey ultimately led me to become a Certified Life Coach and Speaker. I additionally discovered my love for journaling and realised that I could combine that with my skills as a Life coach. This led me to creating and self-publishing my self awareness journal called “Journal and Discover your Authentic self” (link to journal section)
This journey helped me disern that my passion is to help other women redefine themselves and rise to their full potential. I wanted to guide mothers, like myself, who were feeling lost and help them create a life that empowers and fulfils them.
The Phoenix Mum Approach
The “Phoenix Mum” program I created is built on the belief that every woman has the ability to rise from the ashes, rediscover her dreams, and step into a more authentic, powerful version of herself. In the Phoenix Mum approach, you’ll embark on a guided, three-phase journey to rediscover what truly drives you, reconnect with your inner power, and create an intentional path forward—one that aligns with your life goals and fulfils you in every role.
Through this program, you will:
- Reignite Your Inner Fire: Find clarity on what’s holding you back, redefine your values, and set achievable goals.
- Reclaim Your True Ambitions: Create actionable plans for both personal and professional growth, becoming a fulfilled mother and a career-driven woman.
- Transform Your Life with Confidence and Clarity: Work through tailored strategies and ongoing support, so you don’t just dream big—you live it.
By investing in yourself with the Phoenix Mum approach, you give your family the best version of you: someone who is passionate, balanced, and purpose-driven.
It’s your turn now
Are you ready to Rise?
I believe every woman deserves the chance to reconnect with her own potential. You don’t need to choose between being a great mother and an ambitious individual. If you’re ready to rediscover yourself and create the life you’ve always wanted, I’m here to support you.
Let’s unlock the powerful, purposeful life waiting for you. Schedule your 30-minute discovery call today and take the first step in reclaiming your true power as a Phoenix Mum.